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writes: hi. im 22 years old, and have a guy i've been seeing casually for sex for about 3 months now. hes begun to tell me he's told his best friend about me, and says its hard not to talk about me. he's constantly sending me mixed signals--he'll act jealous, and question whether i've hooked up with any other men when we haven't seen each other in awhile. when i am honest, he gets distant and then begins to say things that he thinks will make me jealous. are my friends right that he likes me, and is just going slow? i know he eventually wants a relationship but he's scared like i am, so im not sure. thanks.
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reader, Toria +, writes (13 October 2006):
 You need to think about what you want from this casual relationship and once you've worked that out you need to talk to him and find out what he is wanting and expecting things to go also telling him what you want, if one of you is wanting more and the other isn't going to give that then someone is going to get hurt in the end so you need to set things straight now.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2006): How do you feel about this guy? Do you want more from him? All these questions have to be thought about too! Do you want a proper relationship with him?
You've got to sit down and talk these things through with him. I mean maybe after 3 months of having casual sex he might to become an "exclusive" couple and starting acting and goin out like a proper couple...
Guys are not usually the best at expressing how they feel and we end up 2nd guessing so at least if you can talk to him and tell him honestly how you feel and find out what and how he feels toward you for a start and go from there...
Love is never easy but best of luck girl x
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