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writes: OK y'all I need some outside opinions. My long time boyfriend got drunk with his best friend last week and I overheard him talking (for some time) about this girl at his work that "wants his ****." It didn't sound like they had actually done anything, but of course I wonder...I confronted him with this the next morning, and he said that he was just being stupid (he was pretty drunk) and this girl was quitting at the end of the week anyways so I wouldn't have to worry about her trying anything. So that was last week. Today (and I know this is childish, but I just had to know) I call his work, asked for the girl by name, and she came on the line. Having found out she IS still working there, I just hung up. DOES THIS SEEM LIKE HE IS LYING TO MAKE ME FEEL MORE SECURE ABOUT SOME CHICK THAT JUST HAS A CRUSH ON HIM, OR DOES THIS SOUND MORE FISHY??? Guy advice GREATLY appreciated...
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reader, Ifonlyangel +, writes (2 June 2006):
Well you wanted guy advice, well.... ok yeah us guys after a few drinks do get abit slack jawwed and shout about things to impress our mates, personally i think you should sit down wit him and ask him in a non argumentative way about what you heard and tell him that it really did hurt you to hear him saying that and that ever since it has been making you feel very down, then ask him how he would feel if he heard you saying the same to your best mate and see what reaction you get from this, if he really does wanna sleep with this girl from work for what ever reasons you need to remind him that you arent gonna be played, you want an honest relationship and cheating isnt something you start bringing into the relationship. let him know that you are serious anout him and you love him but if smutty work sex is what hes wanting then you will have to leave him. trust me. . it'll be alright ......
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (31 May 2006):
 It could be that he was just doing some drunken fantasising with his mate, and it is as innocent as that and when caught out by you he felt he had to re-assure you and so told you she was leaving so you would feel more happy and would be off his back.
Or it could be that he was telling his mate what he wanted to do with this girl and the drink had relaxed his mouth and his true thoughts were comming out, sometimes people talk out with there mates what they plan to do, see if the mate thinks it is a good idea, wether it would ever have got past the talking stage is another matter.
Lying to you was bad but telling you what he wanted to do to her and then saying she still worked there in his eyes would be worse, telling you she had gone meant you felt better and she was no longer a threat.
Well done for finding out the truth about her still being there, now you need to tell him that you have found out his lie and take it from there.
Good luck
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