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Does my bf have to look or think of other girls in order to get hard to have sex with me

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Question - (19 April 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 April 2013)
A female Canada age 36-40, *exy cakes writes:

I feel like my bf of 3 years is talking to people about me and i tink that its bad things .... i think hes secretly calling his ex gfs he called his ex gf when we first started dating i didnt know about it then one day he got all dressed up looking hot n he said he went to the court house for me but i dont know if thats why he got dressed up he went to his ex gf house n then he drove her to the doc and didnt tell me she told me

..... so i think hes doing it again .... now theres rumors going around that i do nothing a im lazy and sleep all day im shit n i dont care about nuthin n no one but my self and that i dont go no were cuz it dosent benefit me i only go out if it benefits me in the end n i treat my bf like my bitch

...i know hes talking to them cuz he allso signed up to dating sites and told me that he didnt and it was spam even tho it had his password and username right n all the lil things anout u were right to .... but the websites have his stuff saved cuz he had it in auto fill but so did i and i didnt get it ...

so is he telling the truth about this ????? And i know everytime i leav the room he puts porn on or naked pics of girls n looks at it and touches himself he says he dosent n we fight about it left right and center .... but he says it is not true so is he right did he really stop ?????

He also says that he has to look to other women to get hard for me cuz hes not attracted to me anymore ....... then he told me that that wasnt true at all n he tried saying he didnt say that but he did a few times n i do think he thi ks a out someone eles cuz his eyes are closed during it .... so tell me if u can answer these qwestions for me

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2013):

Your boyfriend should no longer be your boyfriend if he says he no longer feels attracted to you anymore. What the hell? Where did this loser come from? Your a great women and deserve better.. Tell the prick to piss off. There are other men out there that will be more than happy to date you and tell you that your the prettiest thing they have ever seen. Send this nut job back to the loony bin for his electro shock therapy treatments. Do it now...

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (20 April 2013):

olderthandirt agony auntduring sex, each partner should be concerned with one thing and one thing only...Providing as much pleasure to the other as possible. If your partner likes this or that, you do yhis or that no matter what. He should be concentrated on you and your desires ONLY. If you feel he's not doing that then you need to find another.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (19 April 2013):

Honeypie agony auntWhy do you even want to be with a guy who tells you up front that he isn't attracted to you no longer, that he has to look at other women to even have sex with you?

The guy is tearing you down. He is trying to make YOU feel bad about yourself and from what you write you seem to believe him.

And the thing with the porn, EVERY time you leave the room he HAS to look at it and fiddle with himself? That just seems unhealthy.

Why not move on?

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