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*ernith
writes:Hi, my best friend and i work together and have always got on well.lots of laughs similar interests etc Lately he has been staring at me and smiling when catch him doing it.yesterday he removed a piece of fluff from my hair and stroked it.Then when we were talking about rotas he told me he was leaving early and asked how i felt about that when i said id like it better of he stayed he seemed happy. He often shows of around me and always tries to make me laugh by being a clown.am i crazy or does he really like me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2020): I'd take a pause, tilt my head, squint, and ask..."what's up with you? Why am I getting weird signals? I'm not sure how to take you sometimes!"
Put him on the spot. If you're reading him wrong, now is his opportunity to offer you some clarity.
I'm not much of an advocate for flipping platonic to romantic-relationships; because most don't go well. Mature-folk don't usually play these games; so you may as well ask if he's getting mushy on you?
Hopefully you're both single?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (1 March 2020):
 You are in your 30's, YOU tell us...
We don't have a crystal ball and we don't know you or him.
The question is this though, Is he married? If he is, ignore his flirtatious behavior.
And are YOU single or married?
If he is single, then consider this, would you really want to get involved with someone you work with? What if it down the line don't work out?
The work place is not the place for romance, YOU are old enough to know that.
You also call him your best friend, maybe he is just being friendly?
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