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Does love fade away that easy or is it even true love?

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Question - (22 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 August 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, *pdragon0 writes:

How do I know that she still love me? Well it all started at church school. When I first noticed her[she 13 and I'm 14].. so one month passed and I ask her out. She said yes.. and so it's been 2 months already.. we done a lot of things together, played tennis.. hang out.. talk on the phone etc.

But then after school.. I came to her house.. she was wearing her P.J's [looked so cute] hehe well anyways I hang out with her then left to my friend for a second so then I came back .. gave her a BIG hug .. and then I put my hand on her chin and slowly.. and kiss her.. and she told me that she wasn't ready?.. and I ask for another kiss.. and she said it again I'm not ready.. so I just kiss her on the cheek, then I left

I heard that she was talking to her friend and talked about the kiss. She said he tried to do it again but I didn't let him.. and she says it was weird. [first kiss for her] and said to her friend if he did I didn't like him?? and I was confused right there ..

I don't see her as much of different school. She goes to private schools and I don't, but now we don't talk or she to busy with her life I guess. I always ask her to call me like 6 pm like always but she doesn't anymore. Her parents are strict.. and she's really cautious about it, always looking over her shoulders but like I really do care bout her.. and I write her little letters but she doesn't really take them seriously I believe. I really think that she's really lovable and kind and deserves much better then me.

I ask though that she only want me.. but I can't believe it anymore becuz it her first boyfriend and she doesn't know or have any idea how much I care about her.

I dont know what to do. Does love fade away that easy or is it even true love?

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A male reader, vpdragon0 United States +, writes (22 August 2007):

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vpdragon0 agony auntbut i try so hard .. i already each day how much she means to me.. iono what else to do

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007):

It sounds like you really like this girl. And you need to tell her how much you care. And that kiss thing was really romantic! But you need to wait until she's ready. Just tell her how much you care about her and she how she reacts. If she seems a bit unsure or doesn't say that she feels the same, maybe she isn't that into you, but she is does care about you enough to not say it blankly. Love doesn't fade away that easy, and true love lasts forever. But if your her first bf then she maybe unsure of how to react to you. Just tell her how you feel and see what she says back x

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