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writes:I have been thinking and if I am being honest I feel I have given someone mixed feelings. So I think he has a crush on me. I've said things like well I would date you if...I wouldn't date you if and I don't know why I gave him a list of why. I've talked about a non-date 'date'. I've said multiple times I care for him and want to hang out (but I did only mean it as a friend, not romantically) but also talked about getting to know him better. I've told him he is attractive etc. I've gotten jealous of him hanging out with other people of both sex, just because I wanted to hang out with him and we haven't really as much yet and told him. I even occasionally gave him some of his favorite snacks and drinks. So I think all of this has confused him and he is probably confused and us both frustrated and he thinks I like him (as more than a friend). Do you agree, I send mixed signals?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2024): Sounds like you're a bit confused about what you want. If you're interested in him you could tell him you're confused and see what his reaction is. At the moment it's all in your head and you don't really know what he thinks or feels unless you ask.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 June 2024):
 " Do you agree, I send mixed signals?"
Yes.
Poor guy needs to cut you lose. Or ... you need to cut him loose.
YOU don't really want to date him; you just want attention from him.
Let him be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2024): In a nutshell... YES.
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