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writes:I'm a 20 year old girl, and I've never been in any kind of romantic relationship, with a guy or a girl. I've had huge crushes on guys before, and I think that I may have even been in love with a guy a while back, although I tried very hard not to let it get to that point since I knew that he was already in a relationship. I've always kind of liked girls, and I'm more likely to look at a girl on the street than a guy. Although I think it has less to with me liking girls and more to do with fashion, I like to see what other girls wear to see what the trends are. My problem is that lately I've been thinking more and more about girls, one in specific. In past I've fought off any thoughts about girls, but for some reason I don't mind this time. I don't think there's anything wrong with being a lesbian, but I know my parents would. The girl in question is someone from work, and I know that even if I turn out to like her as more than a friend, then there is no future there. Earlier, even though I thought I wasn't being obvious about it, she slipped into a conversation that she wouldn't go out with me, I pretended not to hear her. I need to know does it sound like I'm a lesbian, bi, curious, or that I just haven't found a guy who can make me happy? I really don't have any friends who I could talk to about this, so any help would be awesome.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): Only you can answer that. Do YOU think you are gay/bi/straight? I can't answer that because I don't know you - but I can say that either way it doesn't matter at all. Perhaps you just haven't found the right guy and because you haven't found him yet you seem to have moved your affections onto a girl. It's just a suggestion.Best of luck with everything.
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