A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi,So i have a best friend who lives in a different city. She has a very close friend (collegue) and i got introduced to him about 5 yrs ago by her. All these years i have met him only in a group and in the presence of my friend. I know everthing about hom and he knows everything about me by now. About 1-1/2 yrs ago, he came over to my city for some project and we happened to meet alone a couple of times. We hanged out a bit and then once he went back, we stayed in touch via sms. We became qiute close and things started to feel didfferent. Its not like we are constantly in touch, but whenever we talk, we pick up from where we left. We like to share dirty jokes over sms just for the fun part of it. But then slowly i started taking interest in him and i think he too did the same. I happened to visit his city 2 times in the last 2 months for a personal crisis situation and both the times my friend and he were there to provide me emotional support. But something strange happened, when he hugged me i felt like a current passing through me. We did hold hands a few times and his grip was quite firm, not wiling to let go kinds. Everytime he touched me (accidently) i felt some strong physical chemistry. He later did mention he felt the same way for me. I am still trying to figure out what i feel for him and so i decided to take a step back. I stopped chatting and smsing him. After almost 10 days, he called me to say that he was going out with his friends on a small vacation. We spoke for a couple of hours. I'm just wondering why did he have to inform me. I wouldnt have known anyways if he went somewhere or not. We are quite old, both are 35 plus. Does it mean he's started taking me seriously? What are my feelings for him? Am i falling for him? What is going on in his mind?Help me get some answers pls :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2012): We honestly can't answer any of those questions OP. I mean you should know how you feel better than we ever could, it sounds like there's mutual attraction but we honestly can't know.
The one question you need to ask yourself is what's holding you back?
You're both 35+, you're not teenagers OP, so why are yee pissing about with the whole "he's so dreamy, does this boy like me?" crap.
You know whether you like him or not, you'd know if he shows signs of interest too, so what's holding you back?
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