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writes:Hi. Do you think a woman would be disappointed if she was to have an affair with a man and discover that his penis was smaller than that of her husband? What a sad question! Anyway - I look forward to your ridicule/replies! Many thanks!
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (7 September 2008):
 Maybe, if she's having the affair for sex reasons.
If she has feelings for the guy, it probably wouldn't matter. Someone we're in a long term relationship it would possibly matter less on the size of their bits, i would say anyway!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2008): Dear Poster
I recently read and article done by Jonti Searll(a sensualist); I do believe he is explaining it very well; I am posting the article and do hope it will answer your question and curiosity; I do believe that there are lots of guys reading the postings who might also benefit from this article in order to eliminate there fears and insecurities regarding the size of there penis.
" One of men’s greatest fears about their penises is that they’re not big enough. For some men it doesn’t matter how big it is, it will never be big enough. The truth is that for most men size is more an ego issue than anything else.
It’s vital to be aware of the fact that sex is not only about penetration, there is so much more to enjoy and explore. We are all ‘whole-body’ beings. The deepest and most satisfying experiences include all of ourselves, not just our genitals.
There has been such a focus in the media on orgasms that we take that to be the goal of sex. But it’s not a goal-directed act. Sex and sensuality are about love, pleasure, exploring, excitement. Orgasms are great, but there’s more!
It’s also important to note that very few women actually have orgasms through sheer penetration.
Techniques
Techniques that focus on oral stimulation, genital massage, expanded orgasm etc can bring enormous satisfaction, deep pleasure and orgasms.
One of the most amazing sensations is to be found in rubbing the head of your penis, lots of lubricant, on her clitoris. It feels totally different to a finger or tongue.
Different positions will also allow for different internal sensations. Rear-penetration such as ‘doggy’, woman on top, woman on her back, legs over her shoulders will give some very cool sensations, almost regardless the size of a penis."
I do hope this was of a assistance to you.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES
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reader, Aunty Em +, writes (7 September 2008):
 No I don't think that matters - unless it's what the woman is looking for!
If it isn't, and her lover is someone who she indeed loves! Then I don't think it would matter, as penis size isn't necessarily the face of love now.
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