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writes:Ok so I feel like maybe my boyfriend doesn't want to see me. Please tell me your thoughts about what he said.I usually vist him during his work break a few times a week right and today I saw him and he said 'you can come visit me tomorrow if you want to, you don't have to' and I said I would because I wanted to. We didn't arrange a time or anything though, I just said I would talk to him later. Then later that night I didn't hear from him so I decided to send him a message asking what he was up to, he said he was getting ready for bed. I then asked him if he wanted me to see him during his break tomorrow and he said 'yeah but only if you want to, you don't have to, I'm going to bed, goodnight bub'. So I sent a message back saying I really did want to meet up on his break if it was okay with him and asked him what time. I haven't gotten a reply because I guess he went to bed. I dunno if he does want to see me or not. What do you guys think is going on? Reply to this Question
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reader, MissKin  +, writes (20 February 2008):
 hmm i disagree with what some of the other answers have said. When i talk about meeting up with my boyfriend i always say 'you can if you want but you don't have to' because i really do want to meet up with him, but i want him to meet up with me because he wants to - not because he thinks i want to. if that makes sense. If he didn't want to see you he would say so, otherwise - what are you worried about? If you truly do feel insecure about it, maybe you should take a break one day from seeing him and only see him every other day on his break? I'm sure he loves seeing you and doesn't mean anything by it. If it's really getting to you, just tell him how you feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008): I wouldn't take it personally about him not wanting to see you at his break in his work place. Maybe some of his work mates are getting on to him about it or else he might just want to spend his break on his own/work mates. Some guys feel suffocated if they spend every spare min with their girlf's. Don't visit him for the next while and see how is in the evenings or w/ends when ever you see him and if you still feel that he doesn't want to see you, you would need to sit him down and have it out with him.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 February 2008):
 He does not like to see you but he is being polite to you and you cannot get his real meanings.
If you want to go , it is your decision. Whether you go or not , it is not his concern. That is his message to you.
Either you go or don't go , he does not care about it.
If you go , so be it.
It looks like he is not happy about something and he is acting that way.
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