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writes:A guy ive been exclusively seeing for two months recently ended things with me. We were previous drunken fuck buddies for three months beforehand who ended up getting feelings for each other and decided to give it a go. We never really went out on dates we just hung out at each others houses. When he ended it i was pretty upset but he said he felt it was better when we were friends and he was hoping we could go back to that. I don't know what he means by going back to being friends, does he want us to start casually sleeping together again? or does he just mean friendship? but we were never really just friends we've always been sleeping together since we first met. I wouldn't mind going back to this as i think we did actually get on better when were just casually sleeping together. I dont want to ask him out straight though as it might be presumptuous to assume he'd still want to sleep with me. We always said we didn't want to get in a relationship as neither us were ready so seeing each other exclusively was the furthest it was going to go.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 April 2016):
 If you have already felt hurt then it will only get worse if you both start sleeping with each other again, sometimes it is hard to keep sex and feelings separate, and you will only end up hurt more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2016): It doesn't sound like it's worth it to pursue this relationship any further (friendship or otherwise) - someone (probably you) will get hurt in the end (if you aren't already).
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (25 April 2016):
 I’m going to roll with your comment that when he ended it you were pretty upset.
If you can’t ask him if you can still sleep together then I don’t think you have the basis of any kind of healthy relationship.
He’s already said it felt better when you were friends.... you two were never going to get into a relationship...
He doesn’t want to be your boyfriend, or your FWB. Accept it. Move on.
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