Does he want me to be a friend? Girlfriend?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay so one year back I met this guy who was my senior at school. I had a crush on him back then but I got over it in time. I told him about it and he was pretty cool with it. We became good friends and we used to catch up sometimes. Once he came over at my place and was kinda being cosy with me. I was a little surprised. He leaned in to kiss me and we kissed for a brief moment but I backed down. He asked me whats wrong I said "I'm not your girlfriend" he didnt say anything but pulled me closer, started to move his hands all over my body and kissed me again this time much more passionately. I couldnt resist and gave in to him. Eventually we ended up having sex and it was truly heavenly. The next couple of days were also the same. He would come over at my place in the night and would try to kiss me. I would resist it at first but eventually give in. As my vacations got over, both of us got busy in our lives. I came to know that he's dating some other girl from his office so I thought that would be the end of us and didnt bring 'our' topic ever again. But one day he said that he wants to meet me and take me some place because he wants to spend some time with me. I said okay. We met and he was being cosy again. He started fondling my breasts and I stopped him but he was like dont. He climbed on top of me pushed me further down on the bed, held my hands and started kissing me madly. I stopped him immediately but he was like please dont stop me I beg you and sarted kissing me deeply all over again. Next he started undressing me and moved down to my neck, my chest, my belly button and further away. That day also we had passionate sex. He didnt say anything about his girlfriend though. Whenever I ask him about his girlfriend he never talks about her always saying that they had a fight and he is so sick of her. He wanted to see me for quite sometime now but I've been busy so I couldnt go. A couple of days earlier he called me and said that he bought something for me on my birthday but since I couldnt meet him his surprise was ruined and so he wants to see me asap and give it to me. He text me yesterday asking 'are you at college ?' so I was like yeah and he was like 'umm can ya see me after your college sometime ?' I said okay cool. He came to see me after my college and handed me a small bag. I asked whats this ? He said open it when you get home its your birthday gift. I said but my birthday was two months back he was like doesnt matter its a belated gift keep it. When I got home and opened it, it turned out to be quite surprising. He gifted me lingerie !

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