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30-35,
*ark_coco102
writes:Hi I’m having trouble figuring out if this guy likes me or just wants me for my body. So I’ve known this guy for about 3 years, but we have never really started hanging out till the beginning of this school semester. We go to the same college and he’s 19 (almost a month older than me) and he is a wonderful guy. I mean to me he’s one of the rare ones among the many creeps I get.Whenever we go out together with a group or alone he will always pay for whatever I want. It’s not that I don’t have money or anything he just chooses to pay for my things. And when we are alone I catch him checking me out and he’ll always try to play it off by saying “oh I was looking at your shoes” or something corny like that. He just loves to be a joker when I point out things I wasn’t meant to see. He always call me beautiful, pretty eyes, his queen or sweetheart whenever we text or talk on the phone. But there are a few times when we do start hitting on each other and things like that. It seems weird but every conversation we have is about how our day went, video games (mostly COD), sex, and more things that don’t matter. The sex talk is not that bad we don’t have phone sex or do sextexting. He basically hits that’s he wants me, but he said he would never ask of me to do anything. He’s been with other girls before and he’s told me about them. And he has told me that when I was ready he would be waiting for me. So I’m not sure if he’s trying to hit it and leave it (he might move away), if he’s just playing around with me, or if he really likes me. Or maybe it’s just me. Maybe he does like me and I’m just pushing him away. I just don’t want to end up doing something stupid (even though I probably will) and messing things up. I just dont have good luck when it comes to guy.
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reader, dark_coco102 +, writes (25 October 2011):
dark_coco102 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhow do i make sure hes not confused? its not like i have a say with what he does or thinks. and im not just going to jump into bed with someone that im unsure about.
i think he already knows i like him, i dont hide it.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (24 October 2011):
 OK, all men want your body but that's not 'love' so don't confuse the two(or let him be confused).Just take it very slow, the "real motivations will reveal themselves in time, then you can decide what to do.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 October 2011):
 Tell him you are interested (if you are) and see where it takes you. If yo uare unsure of what he "wants" from you take you time to go on dates (just you two) and get a feel for him before you jump into bed.
It seems to me that he really likes you for you.
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