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Does he want me? He said he could no longer see me pretexting that my ex is in prison, but he does come round once a week and has sex with me!?...

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Question - (25 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I met a young man about 3 months ago we are both in our early 20's, at first glance he wasn't my type but we went out a couple of times and i realised he was such a lovely person inside and we started spending time with each other and sleeping together.

He told me i made him happy and i thought we were getting on so well and i could tell that feelings had began to grow.

thats when he told me he couldn't see me anymore, his excuse was that it was my ex-partner who is currently in prison. they do not know each other and will more than likely never meet but that was his excuse.

He tried to reassure me that i was his perfect girl but i found this very hard to believe as he was telling me we couldn't be.

A few weeks on now and he comes round once a week and has sex with me. he even hugs and kisses me, i find it so hard to resist because i have feelings for him.

I need to know if deep down he does really want me and has changed his mind or is he just playing games?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2008):

when a person loves another person they are willling to take a bullet for them if they have an excuse they dont love you. hes probably trying to see how much he can get and hes getting very far but my advice is to tell him that you are tired and then you see his response if he is angry you know that he doesnt love you but if he learns to accept it the response that he gave you was not accurate

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