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writes:There was a guy at a Christmas party. When my friends and I got there earlier than others, he immediately talked to me, asking about my hometown, my school and my year in college. I remember that he talked to me three times at the party and I don't know him in the first place. But I found him really friendly.After some time for food and the coming of Santa Claus, he talked to me again. This time he almost asked me the same questions he had just asked before so I asked him "Are you drunk?" in a joking way. He replied "no, I can still remember what you have said to me. You're from....and this is your...." After some time for dancing, I think we happen to see each other at the same location because he was already at A (a place) and I just found it fun to go to A. When he saw me, he started to chat with me about what he was doing recently (researching). When I left the party, I asked him of his facebook. Recently, I had a project and I thought of him immediately beacuse I knew that he is an expert at this so I ask him for his suggestions through facebook.He responded "I'd be happy to talk to you in person if you have some time to meet." But the thing was the project was already on the way. So I told him about the situation and he said he could maybe meet at ..... which is the time I told him that I was free during the project time. But things turned out that he already had a meeting at some time later..... and it took time between the two places so we didn't meet finally.I'd like to know if he is interested in me or he is just really willing to help and friendly. Thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010): Thanks all for telling me what you think!
When he knew that the project was on the way, he actually asked me whether it would still be helpful to meet.Do you think it's a sign that he is just very friendly or he did have no time?
Could q1605 explain more? thanks~
I think Lola1 made a good point because it has been over a half year since the party~lol
HDH offered a good advice but he knew the project ended. (sigh)
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (16 June 2010):
 Well, its now June. Is this all that's happened since the Christmas party? Has he initiated contact on his own?
If not, then he might just be helpful and friendly.
Good luck! :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): It sounds from your first meeting that this guys liked you then and wanting to meet in person instead of just a chat on the phone suggests that he'd like to see you again.
Even if your project isnt over, dont tell him and go along for the help anyway (if your interested in him that is) as this will make the meeting relaxed and men love to feel useful!
If he knows your project is over why not just ask if he'd like to catch up anyway.
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