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writes: After a long distance relationship we are now engaged, still long distance though. I still feel like he puts his friends, and own life before me. He makes the effort to spend weekends with friends but rarely can get weekends for us. When I mention it he gets very angry and says I am jealous and makes me feel I am being very unreasonalbe. His friends don`t seem interested in meeting me, even though some of them are to be ushers at our wedding. I am supposed to be moving to where he lives but am worried I will be very lonely. I think he wants me around only when it suits him.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (21 July 2006):
 Possibly. I would back-off for awhile and let him miss me. People don't miss their water until their well runs dry. Spend more time with your friends and do other things. He will wonder why you backed off and began to ask questions when all your doing is the same thing he's doing. He can dish it but trust me he can't take it. His friends don't feel obligated to meet you because they only take their cue from him. If he doesn't seem interested why should they. So don't blame them for their reactions or lack there of. Just give him a taste of his own medicine and trust me things will change. Good Luck.
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reader, Glitterknickaz +, writes (21 July 2006):
 His behaviour seems to confirm your suspicions. Think to yourself what you would tell a close friend if she said the same to you. If he doesn't have time for you now would he have time for you once you've moved?You're worth more than that.
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