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*tef02
writes:Hello everyone. I have a best friend name Harry we work together at the beginning I use to think he was so weird. I work in the copy center and hes an office supply associate. One day we started talking since that day we became best buds. He would come on his days off to visit me at work bring me snacks or any little thing he was so nice to me. It got to the point I liked him more than a friend. Time went by we stopped talking less because my baby daddy got mad that we would text alot. Time passed we got back to texting and talking over the phone alot. Weave known each other for over 1 year already me and him go out to have lunch or snacks. He has meet my baby daddy because i didnt want the baby daddy to think anything. One night we sat in my car talked about our friendship and we kissed 2 times and then he got off my car and just started texting like nothing happen. 3 months later it happen again but it went further like getting him H**** and stuff but thats it. Hes was a virgen and i couldnt go further. Days went by and one night thats were everything happen we had S** and he seen it normal like nothing never happen like i just took his virginity away. His reaction to everything is so normal. Hes a scarcastic guy and i did told him i like him more than friends and he would never respond with anything. My questions is after everything does he like me to have gone this far? Like we also kick it with a co-worker and he asked her what she thinks about me and him, but then he says he only sees me as his best friend?? Im so confused...
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (23 August 2011):
 Then it's better to stay friends if he won't give you the chance to discuss what happened.
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reader, stef02 +, writes (23 August 2011):
stef02 is verified as being by the original poster of the question well i never ask him neither because i dont know how were going to react on the conversation so i try not to bring it up. When ever i do it goes wrong and we argue for little things to.
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (22 August 2011):
I think this 'best friend' used you. He kissed you and didn't talk about it, he went further with you and didn't talk about it, and he finally had sex with you with no effect on him at all. Best friends would talk as much as possible and be totally open and honest with each other. He never told you he liked you and he calls you nothing more than a best friend to others. He got what he wanted and maybe that's all he wanted, maybe it wasn't. But if he's going to do something like this and not communicate about it, then I'd seriously wonder if this guy's worth my time or breath.
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