A
female
age
26-29,
*andy224
writes:I would like to know if you think this guy likes me or thinks im weird. okay so ive never really talked to him but when were in school we have 2 class's together. Social studies, and lunch. In social studies in the begining of the school year we were put into assigned seats and we were like close to another and then the teacher didn't mind where we'd sit so we moved our seats and there was this month that was really weird. He'd just sit next to me everyday cause i would be in class after him. So my friends knew i liked him in the beginign of the year and then they would pick on me in the classroom and i would try to be cool and everything and act like i didnt care. so one day he found out i liked him and his friend yelled it out to his whole gym class and he said shutup really loudly. So im guessing he was mad or something. So then we never sat next to another for a while and he moved to the back of the classroom and i stayed in the front just incase he wanted to go back to the seat. so at one point i stopped liking him and liked a differnt guy for a while but right as i stopped likeing him , he kept on looking at me in class and id always catch him looking at me. Id always get nervious to be around him. i wasent sure if i was 100% over him or not but in the end of the year i fell for him even more. i really liked him and then all of a sudden he moved his seat to the middle of the classroom and i was in the middle of the classroom at the time. So it was alittle weird cause the only words ive said to him were "hey and you dropped this?" so i dont think he sat there for me. but then id always try to like sneak a peak at him and when ever i would be looking at him he'd sometimes be looking at me so i was confused for a little while. so today was the last day of finals and the last time i was ever going to see him and i was going to tell him that i like him alot. im not sure if i should leave a letter in his mailbox or not because i know where he lives cause when we were little i went over his house alot. well im not sure if i should leave a message in his mailbox or not. So yea today at finals we'd like exachange looks at another, id pretend i was looking at the teacher and hed be looking at me i guess and i would be doing little things to get his attention and sometimes they worked but other times they didnt. please can you tell me what any of this means. Reply to this Question
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female
reader, viel  +, writes (21 June 2012):
 Question is, are you ready for rejection? If you are, leave a message in his mailbox. I'm not saying that he doesn't like you, I am actually hoping he does, it's just that sometimes a guy's action is unpredictable, you'll never know if he really like a girl or not, so be ready. And if it isn't just in your imagination that he's always looking at you too (because when we like someone, we often misinterpret their simple gestures like it's something we should be happy about)then perhaps he also finds you interesting. I think you're in a situation that you actually feel it inside you that he likes you too. All you have to do is hope for the best and expect the worst. I say go for it. It's hard to live with "what ifs" on your mind. Don't be afraid of rejection. It will always be better to have done what you wanted to do, than regret doing nothing at all. Good luck.
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