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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I was just wondering if you can tell that someone is attracted to you even if they do not lead on that they are you can just sort of feel it when both of you are attracted to each other, like you have bonded with this person on a higher level and you feel you both know it, but are acting like it is not there (and you know it is)... Just that magnetic eye contact. Is it chemistry or? And how can you tell if it's mutual? Reply to this Question
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male
reader, New Englander +, writes (21 June 2012):
 There are unsaid cues for sure. I am 45 and and can go back all the way to thoughts of when I was your age and there was MUTUAL attraction. It was felt and I always could tell when it was MUTUAL as opposed to me for her or her for me.
It sounds like you are liking him, but are scared to let him know. I think if you like him you should share hints in a safe way and see if they are well received. Most guys will bite at the opportunity of someone they are interested if signs are carefully placed. If he does not take the bait it could mean he is 1) shy; 2) liking somebody else more; 3) just not interested in that way. If it is any of those 3 you lost nothing, and are that much closer to finding someone who will be there wanting you too. Good luck.
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