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writes:Yesterday I went to the movies with my friends Julia, Jay, Jack, Cassie, and Jose. Julia, Jay, Jack and Cassie know that I like Jose, as in more than a friend. And they think he likes me too so theyre trying to set me up with him. Jack told me to pull a move on him (the yawn thing) and I said no, but I really wanted something to happen. During the movie Jose and I were flirting, so much actually that we barely watched the actual movie. After the movie Jack, Jose and I were goofing around while Cassie, Julia and Jay went to the store and Jack wanted me to kiss Jose. But Jose told me to kiss Jack first. So I gave Jack a short 1/2 second kiss and Jose a normal kiss. When Jay came to wait for the bus with us I pretended to get mad at Jose. And Jack told him to kiss me and apologize and he said he doesnt have those feelings for me. But after we got off the bus and were walking home he kissed me twice, as an apology kiss. Today he messaged me saying that he just wanted to be friends with me and that the kiss was just that, an apology kiss. But its like 'Why would you kiss me again if you dont have those feelings for me?!?' Anyways should I try to just be friends with him? I mean it really hurt me when he did that. I think he may like me and just be afraid to admit it. But I really dont understand him. Please help me?!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 October 2011):
 You kissed his friend as well, so either he feels that you are all just friends having a laugh or else he was testing you to see if you would kiss his friend and you did kiss his friend. He says he doesn't feel that way towards you so if I were you either you should accept what he has told you, or else just tell him out straight that you like him and see how he responds to that, if he still says he feels nothing then am afraid you need to move on.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (8 October 2011):
 When Jose told you to kiss Jack, it is a sign that he wants you all to just be friends. An apology kiss makes sense. I think he really meant business about the friend deal. Don't think too much into it.
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