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30-35,
*hinisanart
writes:PLEASE READ ALL OF THIS!does he like me and just trying to make me jealous or is he like this with everyone?is he trying to make me jealous?does this guy fancy me or is he just like this with everyone?help me?the first day of college i was sitting in class and then craig* walked in and sat next to me.we hit it off right away and were laughing together etc in the first five mins.then as it was our first lesson the teacher wanted us to "stand up and say something interesting about ourselves" i said to craig* "but im not interesting", he said "im sure you are". since then he's sat next to me every lesson even if i've moved to another place. he waves at me in the corridors/street and trys to stop and chat but other people have told me how rude he is because even tho he chats to them in lesson he doesn't bother outside of class. he touches me a lot,like drawing on me,high fives, grabbing my hand or face he,he doesn't do that to any other the girls who sit with us.he get me everything i need in lesson-paper from the front etc.umm we had these paper view finders that we looked through and he looked at me with his and said sexy.he asked me to add him on facebook.he asked me to go to the pub with him.when i said icouldn'tt wait for halloween he said oh im going to have one.he stops when he's walking so that we can bump into each other.he asked me to go as a bunnie for his party (i said no btw).although i thought he already had a gf but then when i was telling him about my friend who cheated on her bf he said that his gf did that to him but their friends now (ages ago) and then said clearly "so im single now".BUT, although he does seem to be extra nice and touch me more than others he is always very nice to everyone so maybe im exaggerating in my head,mind my friend did say he obviously likes me but she's my friend so could just be being nice.AND there is this other girl gina* who me and my two friends dnt really know who keeps following adam,who follows us when we move around the room.on thursday she wasn't in so i asked craig* where that girl is?and he said "i dnt even know her name and laughed".she clearly likes him and overly flirts but didn't pay her attention.BUT yesterday i came in late and was talking about this other guy Jack* in my form room and saying how fit he is and then Craig* seemed to chat less to me all lesson,gave gina*his number and said he'd come and see her at work.he still touched me alot tho but was acting a bit weird?do u think he likes her or is it my fault because i mentioned jack*?and to make things worse that gina* girl kept making nasty and sly comments to meas welllLUCKILY,she was ill (i mean bad but lucky too)and he didn't go to see her at work,i was worried they'd hook up.so do you think he likes me?what do you think i should do?ive never met a guy who was funny and good looking,tall and best of all well known for being the nice guy!was he trying to make me jealous?i doubt he's a player because all his old friends say he's too nice and i only think he's properly been with that girl he was with for ages when she was cheating on him with his best friend :Zalso im his "type" while she is different from what he seems to find physically attractive and i always make him laugh and he touches me more but he did ask for her number BUT he asked me to go out with him to the pubi think me constantly talking about other fit boys at the beggining of the lesson might have made him act like this
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 September 2009):
Sounds like he really likes you. But, like all guys, he hasn't got a clue about your subtle hints. You're going to have to be brave and just tell him exactly how you feel! Lots of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2009): sounds like he likes you, but you also are giving him mixed signals. If you like him you need to make an attempt to meet up with him when he asks. He might feel like you are not interested or that you are blowing him off and talking about other guys won't make that look any better. My advice would be to ask him to go and do something like meet up for coffee or something easy. It doesn't seem he's a player it just seems like you didn't show him you were seriously interested and so he went looking for other girls. Guys don't get subtle signals very well so if you thought you were giving him the signs you liked him maybe they weren't clear enough. Be forward and ask him out if you're interested.
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