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Does he just wants to fool around or is he actually interested in me?

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Question - (14 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *ero041 writes:

Hi,

I just need some explanations. I have met my friend's brother a couple of months ago at her house and that night, we kind fooled around and got very intimate but we didn't have sex.

After that night, we have seen each other a few more times within the span of 3 months and we both acted like nothing ever happened although I clearly showed him that i was interested but got no response. So I just moved on.

However a couple of days ago when I met him at his house again, we was very flirty. We didn't ay much but we constantly gave each other flirty looks across the room, laughing at inside jokes, etc. He kept trying to touch me all night long. He would give me random hugs, squeeze my hips and my butt, at one point he even kissed me on the neck.

I just want to know if he just wants to fool around again this time or is he actually interested. Please give me some explanations. Thank you so much!

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A female reader, vero041 United States +, writes (15 April 2009):

vero041 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you, for your responses. Also, i'm acually talking to another guy but the thing is i am not sexually attracted to him at all. We've been hanging out, going to dinner and movies, etc. He's not shy, but he just doesn't make the right move on me i guess. That's why i've been thinking aout it a lot. It's like there's 2 guys and i'm emotionally attracted to one and physically attracted to another. It's so confusing sometimes and I don't know wat to do.

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A female reader, sappygirl United States +, writes (14 April 2009):

sappygirl agony auntguys sense that and it's a turn off. They like to pursue

...so act cool and enjoy his company without

Any thought to the outcome.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009):

Usually people say... guys of our age do all these things to fool around. and they are somewhat right. i think he likes you BUT is not serious about it. for guyz everything is a JOKE. especially at our age. Just be friendly .Move slow. be good to him . You never know he might like you one day.

Good luck

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A female reader, vero041 United States +, writes (14 April 2009):

vero041 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you, i kind of like him so that's why i've been thinking abt it.

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A female reader, sappygirl United States +, writes (14 April 2009):

sappygirl agony auntHe's fooling around. He probably thinks your

Cool and attracted to you. But guys this age just

Want to have fun. If he liked you u would know..

Your phone would be ringing! Don't think too

Much into it.

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