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writes: There is a guy at work who I have started to become friendly with due to a mutual acquaintance. Whilst talking on the phone last week he was feeling sorry for himself with a cold and as we talked he said to me that 'he needed the love of a good woman'. I didn't know what to reply to this.Later that day I texted and asked if he was ok and he said he was. I asked if he minded me texting him and he said 'not at all it was lovely to hear from you, anytime'.Does this guy just want a someone to talk to or is he hoping to go a bit further with it.
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reader, polarkite  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 He said, 'I wouldn't mind you coughing if I was lying next to you in bed'????
That's just creepy, I don't know what that means! This guy doesn't have enough confidence to say what he really means.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the two replies. He has since spoken to me as I said I was having problems sleeping because of coughing so much and he said 'I wouldn't mind you coughing if I was lying next to you in bed'.I take this implies that he is more interested in a one night stand that anything further.
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reader, polarkite +, writes (3 February 2008):
Who knows? Maybe he's a hopeless romantic, or maybe he was shy and trying to see if you liked him, or maybe there's some other explanation.
*Slow down*, and be his friend, and see how things work out. If he starts talking about *specific* girls he likes, then that probably means he thinks of you as a *friend*. But that doesn't mean it can't turn into more, especially if you like him as a friend also. It simply will take longer. You could even give him relationship advice!
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reader, kenny  +, writes (3 February 2008):
 This guy is obviously on the look out for potential partner material. When he said he wants the love of a good woman its very hard to say if he meant with you, or with someone else. He could genuinly just want someone to talk to, a friend out of you, or he could want a whole load more. I think that its something you are going to have find out as time goes on, or simply ask him what his feelings are.
Good luck x
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