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anonymous
writes:I'm recently married. Things generally are very good with our relationship. Just today, though, my husband told me that he has to travel to his company's other office a couple hours away sometime next week, and that he's going to stay after work and have drinks with his co-workers, who are all women. I know it's not really out of the ordinary to have a drink with a co-worker, but he's never traveled to that office since we've been together (over 2 years), and he's not much of a drinker, so this sounds off to me. He's also vague about what day this is happening. Should I be concerned? Something rubs me the wrong way.I suggested that I come with him, maybe go to a coffee shop while he works then join him with his co-workers when they have drinks and be the designated driver, since it's so far away. (I work for myself, so I make my own schedule.) He didn't say no, but was discouraging me from doing so. I mean, having drinks then driving 2 hours home at night sounds like a bad combo; I want to be in DD if that's the case - for his safety. Is that wrong of me to want that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2012): I think you are more curious about his female coworkers than his safety and he knows that. If he has given you a reason not to trust him, then address that instead of hoping to ferrit it out by offering your "help".
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