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writes: Hey there. i met this guy about 2 years ago and we dated for a while, but then it didnt work out cos we were just too young i think. anyway he lives really close to me so iv seen him round quite a bit. Occassionaly out of the blue he'l text me sayin somethin like"i cant stop thinkin bout u". Iv got off with him a couple of times since when iv been clubbing and i hada one night stand with him last august. Anyway, i saw him again last week and he was an hour late in meeting me!then we went back tohis and hadthe most amazing night(if u know what i mean) he said after wed hadsexhe wanted to get with me properly and have kids etc..i missed his call the next day and he hasnt returned my text or called me since!i just need to know if you think he likes meor if he is just a charmer and a slimeball.but i cant stop thinkin bout him.HELP!!!!WHAT SHOULDI DO? LOVE JEN.X
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2006): Yeah don't call him back. I KNOW IT'S HARD, but yes, I agree with everyone here - no call. Keep it cool. I'm not saying play hard to get, but at the very least, be majestic about it. In other words, keep your integrity.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (19 January 2006):
 If he was as interested in you as you'd hope, he would have been texting and phoning you the next day until he got hold of you. Even if he didn't want to come on too strong, he would have made more of an effort that he seems to have done.
Just try and play it cool, don't be ringing and texting all the time. It's not a nice place to be when you're the 'last option' for a guy if he's bored and needs a bit of fun. If you act depserate and he's not too intrested, that's exactly what you'll become.
He's obviously trying to mess with your head, texting you saying nice things, getting you into bed then ignoring you. He definitely isn't serious about getting with you properly so you should just forget about him and move on.
Always trust your judgement. Good luck
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (19 January 2006):
If he was as interested in you as you'd hope, he would have been texting and phoning you the next day until he got hold of you. Even if he didn't want to come on too strong, he would have made more of an effort that he seems to have done.
Just try and play it cool, don't be ringing and texting all the time. It's not a nice place to be when you're the 'last option' for a guy if he's bored and needs a bit of fun. If you act depserate and he's not too intrested, that's exactly what you'll become.
He's obviously trying to mess with your head, texting you saying nice things, getting you into bed then ignoring you. He definitely isn't serious about getting with you properly so you should just forget about him and move on.
Always trust your judgement. Good luck
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reader, Mickeylee +, writes (19 January 2006):
 It doesn't sound promising darling. I think he's a slimeball. He aint genuine about how he feels bout you. He's just using you and i think you should get with the program and start treating yourself with respect. If you don't respect yourself he aint gonna respect you. I think you just a little bit too easy for him. Give yourself some credit, you don't need him. I'm sure you can do better and deserve better. All you gotto do now is ignore him. Make yourself unavailable. Be busy when he calls or texts you. Don't always respond immediately. even if you must pretend to be busy. Always make excuses if he wants to see you. Good luck sweetie, take care...
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (19 January 2006):
 am sure he is a charmer, after all he keeps getting you into bed. Since, you are wanting to have sex with him as much as he wants you, I don't think he is going to fall into the slime ball category though. If you were to hold off on sex do you think he would stick around to see if a relationship could develop? That is where your answer lies. If you want to know if you can have something real with this guy, you need to stop sleeping with him and start talking about a relationship. If he heads for the hills, you know he was just in it for the sex, if he stays around you know he is interested in you.
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