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Does he feel the need to possess?

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Question - (18 August 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 August 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *luffyPie writes:

I'm just curious...

Whenever my boyfriend gives me a simple hug or ties me up (we practice certain bondage techniques, but not hard-core ones, he likes to see me struggle), he says: "You're mine!"

I tell him "no, I'm nobody's ans stop saying that" and I'm serious, I don't like this, but he keeps repeating it "oh yes, you're mine" and his voice becomes grave. He doesn't seem like playing to me, I mean I know him very well! Also, he's not the abusive type.

Does this boost his self-confidence or something? Does he feel the need to POSSESS? I know he likes to dominate, but this "you're mine" thingie becomes annoying...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010):

If he doesnt show signs of abusive or too-posesssive tendencies anywhere else in your relationship then I would not worry about it.

Some girls would really get off on that kind of thing. He may like to let that side of himself loose in the bedroom just based on past experience.

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