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writes:MEN OR TEENAGE BOYS GIVE INPUT:Ok well theres this boy i like i mean really like and i thought he might like me a little too.well i mean what can i do i have no classes with him and if i wanna talk to him its hard to because hes always around his friends and some of my friends too. so its hard how do i talk to him without embarrasing myself and looking stupid and he doesnt make it easy for me cuz i can tell he doesnt really pay much attention to me as he used to idk if he even likes me PLEASE HELP Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2012): Find him on facebook and tell him how you feel. The result can only be either positive or negative.
If its negative you know where you stand, but if its positive, then you can take things further from there and see where it leads.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (28 August 2012):
 Dear Ms. Help,
To verify your question, He used to pay attention to you, now he doesn't. He hangs around with his friends and your friends but not you. You really like him and you think he might like you just a little.
If he is obviously excluding you from his circle there is little hope. If it is not obvious then you are not making the right moves. So you need to determine that first.
Your main question was how to talk to him without being embarrassed. First thing get over your fear of embarrassment. You need to be bold and confident. You also need to be willing to take a risk to get what you want. Everyone gets embarrassed from time to time, and contrary to teen myth, no one has ever died of it.
My regular advice is for you to take an interest in the things (clubs, sports, hobbies) that he is interested. Make it a point to be where he is going to be. Smile a lot. Learn about the things he does so when you get a chance you will have something to talk about.
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