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Does he care? Or just doesn't want me to fall for an idiot?

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Question - (20 May 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 September 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok I have a question.

If a guy wants to find out who you fancy, and you tell them (and it isnt the guy), and if he reacts by saying this guy is stupid and a player, and generally trying to put you off him, do guys do this because they're jealous, like you themselves, or just generally care about you and dont want you to fall for a total idiot?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2011):

It could be all three.

At the very least if a guy is calling another guy a player I would listen. Guys are not gossipers in general in my experience. If he is your friend and genuinley cares about you, then he is doing a favor by warning you.

Pay close attention to this other guy you like. Has he had a lot of girlfriends? Is he flirty to others? I would be careful.

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