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anonymous
writes:I want to get over my ex and want to know does the rebound actually work?
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reader, xanthic +, writes (3 November 2010):
 Another relationship may be a distraction for a short time, but it's not going to magically make you get over your ex. Instead, you'd be selfishly using someone that could be genuinely interested in being with you, and the issues you're having with the breakup would impact the new relationship negatively. After a while things will start to fall apart because the rebound relationship isn't working to resolve your issues the way you wanted it to, and whatever poor girl you dragged into the mess will have no idea what went wrong.
No one should have to deal with -your- issues on top of their own. You need to get over your ex first, then think about dating again.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 November 2010):
Not at all. Instead, you take an innocent person into your life, use them and hurt them. And you still won't be over your ex. You want to get over your ex, then it's something you have to do yourself. Don't drag some poor girl into it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): I suspect it is individual determinant.~For me, "NO."~
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