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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:theres a guy i like..but at the moment all we seem to do is argue. he calls me up when he drunk and gets other girls to speak to me! (don't ask why!!) and then is really rude when i do speak to him. its like hes constantly trying to make me jealous. we were meeting up for quite a while and sleeping together and stuff..but then he said he didn't want a relationship..and since then hes bin incredibly rude.he gets angry when i see other guys and calls me up to see if im with other guys when hes drunk. i don't know why he behaves like this. i don't know if theres a hint of possessiveness..that he doesn't want me but doesn't want anyone else to either..or if he still likes me, because i know at one point he really did. also..even after his immature behaviour, i still have very strong feelings for him and want to know if anyone has any advice on how to win a very stubborn guy over?!? his actions show he likes me..like wanting me to himself and getting angry finding out about me and other guys..but he's VERY stubborn..as he has told me in the past, and im not sure whether is is just annoyed at me because i wasn't sat by the phone waiting for him every night?! do you think he likes me?? and how could i win him back??
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (12 August 2008):
 You need to really look deep within yourself to figure out WHY you would even want to be with a guy that is being this emotionally abusive to you.
-Frank B Kermit
http://www.frankadviceforwomen.com
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): This man doesn't like you and you should keep away from him. He shows you no respect and he is unkind. He doesn't want a relationship with you but won't allow you to form new relationships either. He only phones you when he's drunk. Why would you ever want to be with someone like that?
Ask yourself what you would truly look for in a boyfriend. May I suggest, kindness, respect, love, support etc? You are never going to get those things with this person and you are selling yourself so far short of what you deserve by even giving him a second thought.
My advice would be to have nothing more to do with him.
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