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writes:Hey, are what a guy says and does when he's drunk really what he thinks and feels? How do i know if he actually likes me or if he's just drunk and wants to get some skin?
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reader, xforeverxtrue  +, writes (8 July 2007):
 guys don't really know what their talking about, sometimes. it's better to know if the guy likes by asking him when his not drunk. i have been drunk, and i have friends that drink a lot and they mostly never mean what they say. i hope that i helped i bit.
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reader, LauraE  +, writes (5 July 2007):
I'm afraid there is no sure answer to this one. Some people blurt out the truth that they were too shy to say when sober. But some do say things that they don't really mean - just jabber away not really thinking about what is coming out of their mouths. This applies to both men and women. On the whole, I wouldn't rely on anything said under the influence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007): i dont think they mean what they say but it those mean thats whats on there mind if i was u i wouldnt worry
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reader, love-him +, writes (5 July 2007):
 If this helps, im a girl and when i got drunk with my boyfriend and his mates, i told my true feelings (they were good) and i can always remember what happened, which means i do remember exactly what i said).. mail me if u wanna talk x x xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007): I think when a guy is drunk his actions don't mean a whole lot, he is drunk and anything goes,...you can't put much stock in what someone says or does when they are drunk, because in the light of day they will often make very different choices....the best thing to so is to avoid a very drunk man, and leave it until he is sober....and personally, I don't respect a guy who uses alchohol to the extent that he gets completely smashed....is is really immature behavior....and an excuse to act out.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (4 July 2007):
 This time I will disagree with Kenny. Sometimes alcohol only makes inhibitions go away, and then you show your true self.
If I were you, I would suspect the man was only trying to get into your pants. Has he said or hinted he loves you when he's sober? How is he to you when he doesn't drink? There's your answer.
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reader, rkz +, writes (4 July 2007):
Well I can only speak from my own perspective. When I'm drunk most of the time I say what I really feel.Does he say he likes you when he is sober too?
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reader, kenny +, writes (4 July 2007):
 I think when people are under the influence alcohol are often very different people to when they are sober. When we are drunk we often chat a load of nonsence, so what we think and feel is guided by how much alcohol we have consumed.
If you want to know if a guy really wants you for you chat to him when he hasen't had a skinful.
Good luck x
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