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writes:Ok. So this is my issue. About 8 months ago, me and my boyfriend broke up after being together for seven years, we stayed friends and were room mates up until two months ago. And it actually went really well but thats only because we a had a slow drama-free break up, and ever since we've been able to really be 'just friends'. So since my ex, i havent been able to really be interested in someone. I mean i've had sex and gone on dates with other guys, the whole 9 but i havent been able to find anyone intriguing to me. Up until about one month ago, I started talking to a guy that i work with alot. And I started to really like him. We keep each other up all night texting, spend at least an hour a night speaking on the telephone. We also go to lunch together everyday and we only had one occasion where we were together on a social level, outside of work but we were other friends (two weeks ago). So last night, he came to my place and spent the night. We drank a bottle of tequilla and talked about life and then we went to bed. We kissed and he wanted to do more but I didnt want to do all that when we were drunk. I even felt bad about the kissing, but it was awesome! He is unbelieveable. And it's not awkward at work or anything but i really like him and i dont know if last night was a drunk thing or not, he did wake up kissing me. But be honest, am i setting myself up for disappointment? or is it worth pursuing?
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reader, cd206  +, writes (14 March 2007):
 It sounds worth pursuing but if you're feeling worried about it let work guy make the next move towards being together and make it for a social occassion like a meal out or going to the cinema rather than feeling like you should be rushed into bed. That was you can see if he's really interested or not. You seem to have some feelings of guilt about being with this new guy... I think it's because he's the first significant guy after your ex and saying yes to him means saying a final no to the ex if that makes any sense but we all have to move on and if you've found an awesome guy I would enjoy him!
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