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writes:I'm 16 years old and been on and off with my boyfriend for the past 2 years. we both love each other and thats why we always end up back together no matter what happens. In the past my boyfriend was always the one who wanted to talk to me every second and need attention 24/7. Recently we broke up for a good 2 months and went our seperate ways. We got back together last week but everything feels so different now. He has changed and he even admits it. He made a lot of new friends, and is more independent. I feel like now im always the one who wants to talk to him every second but he's busy. Another thing that is hard is he loves to smoke weed and get wasted on weekends. Do you think things will gradually get back to the way it used to be?
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (12 March 2010):
 The thing will not come back normally, but you have to be active and demanding. Start fighting [ Not quarreling } for his bad habit of smoking, and habit of remain far with other friends. Bad and Good things will not occur automatically, so one has to set goal, and put checking whether the thing is relevant with the goal? If not than fire the bad causes, otherwise, event occasion and emotions will be in bad shape.
Well, I note you are good observer.... You should not be pleased of his dependence on other than you. His real 'independence' is his dependence on you only. Love demand 'independence', but which is also the dependence on someone who is the object of love. RIGHT???
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2010): I do think he will. He just needs a little time to realize what he has in front of him. Don't worry sweetie, he'll come around. Let's hope it's soon, we never know but i know he will.
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