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writes:Me and my wife have always had a good relationship and have excellent sex, we are very close and share the best life together. How ever we were talking in bed last night and she suddenly asked me if i could remember how excellent the sex was on our wedding night and i have to addmit it was absolutly unbeleivable. Although we have really good sex we can't seem to do it like that i suppose it might have been just a once in a life time experience. I don't know why we can't do it like that again but it was soooo good and it was just unexplainable we don't really know why it was so different but we want to try and do it like that again. the feeling lasted for ages. I don't know if it was the fact that it had been an exciting day becuase we had just got married or whther it was the feeling of just being married but it just won't happen again. I'n not complaining about the sex now because its excellent but if theres anyway we can get that feeling back we had on that night without getting married again we would do anything for it. Any tips? Do you think it was just excitement from gettin married?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (5 April 2007):
 CD, as always is right on.
Losing your virginity... you only do that once and it's super exciting and a great memory. Getting married and the wedding night, also a one time, adrenaline pumped, wonderful, exciting experience. You were probably just very excited after getting married and tying the knot and you were swept up with being COMMITTED to each other. And let's face it! That's exiting.
As CD said, trying new stuff in the bedroom is always fun. Do something wild and unexpected... or take a little vacation. Role play? Dress up? New position? Pretend to be strangers in a bar, introduce yourselves to each other then go have wild sex in the bathroom?
You're a lucky couple to have a good marriage and a healthy, happy sex life. Be proud of yourselves! Many couples would be horribly jealous...
Experiment. Go to an adult toy store together... that could be a lot of fun!
There are tons of options.
Enjoy, sweetness and have fun together.
xxIndia
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reader, cd206 +, writes (5 April 2007):
 I think it's likely that it was mostly down to the adrenaline of being married but maybe it was because it was new. Maybe you should try some new stuff in bed that you haven't done before. New usually equals exciting which equals good sex. The most important thing is not to get hung up on trying to recreate things. If the sex is great and your marriage is good it would be silly to start obsessing about something small like this.
CD
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