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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i am deeply upset. i am only married a few months and lied to my husband about the amount of debt i was in.i do not blame him in anyway it is all my fault and i am deeply sorry and facing up to all me problems. he found out and threw me out of the house. for the first two weeks all he did was scream and shout down the phone to me. them he was starting to say i need help with my problems (i was sucidal and have other issues so seeing a counselor) and started to be nice and we met up and had a lovely day together. he told me he will always love me but can not be with me. we then went through a very bad few weeks of nothing only him telling me he wants nothing to do with me. over the last few days he has said he loves me and wants to meet up. he asked why i lied and that if i had told him we would not be apart. i explained i was afraid and that all i want was to sort the bills and us to be together. he said he needs time by himself but is ringing me every night. he is so sad and depressed. does anyone think there is any chance for us and how do i let him know i am so sorry and trying to sort myself out. (his family now want him to have nothing to do with me)
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reader, Shonababes  +, writes (20 November 2008):
Tell him you love him so much and you dont want to lose him.If you are a really good married couple you would be able to sit down and talk about it.Married couples have got to be there for each other so talk to him about it and try and think of a solution to the problem maybe borrow money get a loan and borrow money from your families.During your wedding vows am sure you made a promise to each other to be there for each other NO MATTER WHAT.Good Luck Darl let me know how it goes x
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