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36-40,
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writes:hey so me and this girl have known each other for a long time an we've liked eachother the whole time but we go on and off on and off...and now, we got close again and i wanted us to be together and she said no cuz she doesnt wanna hurt me again and theres like a 1% chance it will work. i want that 1% to be 100% i want to be with her, but i dunno what to do. i can wait but she will just find more guys, we're in high school, but i don't mind waiting so we are together for along line. so i told her lets not go out this time and save it for later but she said no...so i dunno. think she will change her mind in the future?anything? Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (12 March 2007):
 She obviously likes you but doesn't want anything serious. I would play hard to get with her. DON'T be so available to her, DON'T go out with her even as mates, DON'T call or text her and DON'T answer back immediately she calls or texts you. Let her see you have other things in your life and other friends, that way she'll miss you more. She's just taking you for granted here, she knows you like her so she's dangling you on a piece of string. What you need to do is cut that string and do your OWN THING! Maybe that way she'll see what she's missing and want to get closer to you.
Eve
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reader, starbreaker +, writes (12 March 2007):
I think she's just trying to let you down easy.
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