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writes:hi,met a girl this weekend. we'r talking on a networking site now. im not sure if she is into me or not yet but heres the thing.....she was living with her last BF and has a child with him. im in uni and living with my parents. shes a year younger than me tho.all her male friends are like these massive steroid bodybuilders. although i workout everyday and have a good body, i aint a monster like these guys she associates herself with.im not sure yet if i would want2 get involved with her yet, cos i dont know her well enough. but, if Im in uni and living with my parents and shes already moved out with sum1 previousely, would she even consider me as a possible dating type anyway? plus she is stunning, and all the blokes she hangs round with are like these buff giants. would she see me as in her league?im not like this geeky bloke or nothing.lol id consider myself just as or better looking than her boy mates and have had really pretty exes, but its just im not as loud and confident as them. basically do u reckon the company she keeps and the fact that shes been there done it, and i live at home will make it totally unrealistic that she would be interested?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): Hey love! I can understand ur worries, it must be hard. But if she likes u she wont care about that-trust me. It sounds like u care more about that side of things then she does. If she likes u she wont compare you and she will like u for you-no matter what. So take ur time, get to know her more and put ur insecurities aside. best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): My ex was as skinny as I was if not more and I still wanted to be with him...
i say give it a go...if you like someone you like someone
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reader, Alastair +, writes (15 December 2008):
No mate i don't think so
If you've had pretty girlfriends before, why can't you do it again? ;)
Anyway, you sound like a nice guy, and just because you live with your rents isn't a reason that she wouldn't be interested. Why don't you tell her? YOu never know, she might feel exactly the same way?
I hope this helps :)
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