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writes:Hi everyonei have a general question about loveYou see i know this girl and shes my best friend,but i have to confess that i'm very much in love with her. So One day I decided to just tell this to her, and she replyed to me that she also loves me, however she thinks it wouldnt work out between the two of us in that way.So my question is: Is it possible that someone loves a person more than as a friend but decides not to get romantically involved cause of thoughts it wouldnt work out???I always thought that if one truly loves another person, you could at least give it a try to see if it would work out. I wonder what the reasons could be that she thinks it wouldnt work out, but im afraid to ask. I was allready afraid of telling about my true feelings :( Maybe she just isn't (that) in love with me.Its a bit painful and confusing
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): well its just sounds like generally confused. You have already made a big move by telling her you love her, maybe you should try make it work? but is it enough to risk your friendship but whose to say that if its not a good idea you cant still be friends again. if it dosnt work out the situation will soon blow over and hopefually things will just go back to normal but you never know it might really work out! :) Good Luck xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): Yes it's possible but it is very hard for me to answer this qestion due to lack of details(how long have you known her,ever dated before,ect?)
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reader, supermum  +, writes (14 June 2008):
 i am afraid that she can love you.... as a friend...
it may be hard to accept but you do have to respect what she has said,
you can always hope for the future, but dont push it too much or you may ruin it... and it sounds as if you both like eachther as friends and it would be a shame to loose it.
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