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*umblebee04
writes: Hi everyone, I've been reading many questions about situations like mine. Loving your best friend who is in fact a girl, and I am one as well. I just wanted a little advice since I can't seem to build up the courage to tell anyone else. So a couple of days ago, I told my best friend that I thought I was in love with her. I was scared and it took me a while, but I did it and I felt relieved. The best part was, what I was scared of, didn't happen. I thought she'd be weirded out and not want to talk to me, but she was fine, but my problem is, I don't get it? Maybe it's because I really thought she would be .. different? but it seems like she's more closer to me. She's been hugging and she has been saying I love you more, but I don't get it.. I want to ask her but I kind of just want to let it be. We have always been close, she calls me her soulmate and best friend and we'd hold hands in movies at the scary parts or when the couple is just about to kiss. But I always figured it was just me feeling that secret forbidden love. I always have questioned if she liked me too, so does it look like she could? I just need a third persons point of view...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): You certainly have to ask her! You cant spend the rest of your life wondering "what if" right? It sounds like the tow of you have very close special relationship and since you started off friends it could really turn into something great! I think if she is calling you her soulmate then there are more feelings then just friendship. Go get your girl! Good Luck and let me know how it goes or what you decide.
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