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writes:My girlfriend of 2 years recently broke up with me citing she wasn't 'in love' any more. I've been disappointed and depressed ever since. We are still talking and being friendly like good friends, but I still want her back. My question is do you think it's possible to get someone to fall in love with you again? If so, what could be things I can do?Thank you for reading!!!
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reader, ukmale  +, writes (23 December 2008):
 This is a difficult situation. It sounds rather complicated with the new girlfriend being his best friend's ex and his best friend wanting her back. Add to that the fact you love him and we have a soap opera...
I think the backing off idea is a sound one, for this reason: He needs time when you're not there to find out if he misses you. Be less available for a time. Let him have some room to work through his feelings.
Perhaps he will stay with this woman, perhaps not. That is something you will have to prepare for and you can't control it. Having said that, the odds don't sound that great.
Sit back and watch from a discrete distance. If he wants you, he will come after you. I know how strong the urge can be to make something happen, but you need to be patient.
All the best.
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