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writes:So I ran into my "ex" and his new girlfriend today. But my situation is so weird, because he called me a month ago saying that he could never stop loving me, but he has a new girlfriend. So...his mom told him today that he needed to apologize to me. The funny thing, he called her last night and asked how I was doing. He was fine talking about me until her and other people came into the room. His own sister looked at him and said that her own kids even love me. His whole family thinks the world of me because I have given so much to him and done so much for him and then he just walked away..Now I know why, because he lied to me and said he was not dating this girl. We were together a year. This woman is not good, she is a drug addict and he does not need to live that type of life. She's trailer trash and she just does not deserve him. She wouldn't look at me today, but he did say a few words to me. He was kinda rude, but then when he was around only his mom and sister, he was fine talking about me. So in that, does it seem as if he's really over me, or has he realized what he's missing? Reply to this Question
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reader, Forever_His +, writes (17 November 2008):
Forever_His is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThings just got even more complicated. As I was trying to actually be able to just move on, he calls me and says "baby I love you, and I miss you so much. I promise we will be back together, and soon." We were talking and everything just felt so right, like after seeing me, he knew that he had to come back. well he called his mother the day after he seen me, and was freaking out because he had thought that I had found a new boyfriend. His mom even told him no. Well when I talked to him, I told him & it was like he had a sigh of relief. We were just talking, and it was like we were still together, just i was at work when we talked. he said that he had told his girlfriend that they needed to talk. Well then, she calls my phone and leaves a nasty voicemail telling me that "he's with her and that he's happy." All while we talked, he was asking if I thought his parents would let him move back home. Like I said, we were just talking like she didn't even exist. So I didn't hear from him until the next day and I asked him why he said all the great things he did and why did he say "I love you and I miss you?" He said that's what he told me because his mother told him to give me closure. Saying I love you is not closure. Then I asked him again why he said that he said because you asked me how I felt about us, and "those are my feelings." So I'm like okay, so what is it that you want exactly, and all his reply was "HAPPINESS." He has never once said that he is so happy with this girl. Why would he call & say all of that and then let her call me & tell me that he's "happy." What does he want?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 November 2008):
To be honest, I wouldn't get my hopes up.
Yes he's thrown away something great and he probably knows it, but that doesn't mean you should hang around waiting for him to come back.
He may turn up at 3am one day begging for you to come back... he may also get this girl pregnant, marry her and piss off his parents for ever more.
Hedge your bets and try to move on. He's not worth hanging on for.
Good Luck!! xx
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