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writes:Me and my boyfriend was having a affair! He lived with me for bit but then went back for the kids he said! Anyway we kept seein each other for past 7mths! We had a row and was made now he doesnt want to know me! He replies me txts sometimes. dDo you think thats it am not gona hear of him again? I really love him but i dont know if he ever loved me even though said it all the time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): Maybe he did, maybe he didn't, how could we possibly know? Maybe you know if your heart? He must have had strong feelings for you at least to go through with everything and it also sounds like his emotions are quite confusing for him, so pleae don't take it personally.
Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do, beside trying to accept that the affair is over. Keep your head high and try to carry on with your life and make the most of it. Don't contact him. Contacting him now will only make you look desperate and it is not an attractive thing to do. It will also get you absolutely nowhere and damage your own sense of self worth. Think about what he will be missing in his life now that you are not around for him anymore.
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reader, shania +, writes (2 September 2007):
 Not many married men leave their wives for their mistresses,why would they? If this man truely loved you then wild horses wouldn't keep him away.But he has walked out to be with his wife and kids and your back to square 1 again.I suggest you to stop contacting him and move on.Forget him likes he's forgetting you.Meet someone else who you wont have to share with,because two's company but three's a crowd.
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reader, kenny +, writes (2 September 2007):
 Im assuming here that when you say he went back for the kids, that this guy is a married man. If this is the case then i would be inclined to leave it at that, don't persue him anymore and tell yourself you had a lucky escape. If he is married then these guys never leave their wives, so ultimately you become the mistress, or bit on the side however you want to term it, but as you don't mention whether he's married or not its hard to say.
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