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*lexis92
writes:so this guy i know has always tried to get a hold of me. we go to different schools. and for the past year it just never really happened...us getting to hang out. but then last week he started texting me again..asking me to hang out. but i never could. and then finally last tuesday we got to hang out. and i had an awesome time. and then towards the end of the night we definitely had a looong makeout session(but very good one) hahah. anyways that night he asked me immediately to go out on a date with him the next night. and we did and it was pretty good...he didnt try to mkae any moves on me also, which i liked. and then the next day he was constantly texting me and askd me to go to his house to hang out with some friends. and he was making it obvious that he really wanted me to go. however i had alreayd been drinking that night...haha uh oh. but i decided id go anyways. not a good decision. we ended up hooking up that night...big time. which i totally regret and i was going to say something to him after to make sure that not only did i screw things up, but also to make sure he understood the kind of girl i really was. but i didnt feel the need to because immediately after he texted me saying we are hanging out tomorrow. and he told me like 4 times how much fun he had. and he was like are we hanging out tomorow night?! and i was like yes. and he is like "okay, good. im excited, i wish it was tomorrow night already." then the next morning he texted. however that night he never came in contact wiht me. and i have to admit, i am a pretty insecure girl, i wish i could fix it, but i cant. and so instead of texting him myself to see if we were still on, i just waited thinking how much i freaking regretted going so far with him! and now its the next day and he still hasn't even texted me or anything. was he just playing me? or was he actually starting to like me, but then felt that i was too easy? i dont know. i just dont get if it is the second option why he immediately after it ahppend told me how muhc fun he had, and made it such a sure thing that we were going to hang out the next dya and taht he was excited. should i text him? you think he is playing hard to get? or did i just really screw it up by hooking up with him haha?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): giving him a blow job is not a real classy thing to do, you know. That's the kind of thing you reserve for a boyfriend and not some guy you just met that you've only hung around with drinking involved.
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reader, alexis92 +, writes (15 June 2009):
alexis92 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell just to clarify, i didn't have sex with the guy! i am a virgin and take that very seriousily. but however, i did go down on the guy haha...not a good idea regardless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): My thoughts on this are that you made yourself extremely available and presented no challenge to him and were very easy to get. Guys like the chase and to feel like they have something other guys can't easily get. He is no doubt thinking that this is how you give it up to any other guy and that made him lose interest. Telling him that you don't usually do this will just make you look worse and insecure. I think you messed things up and I wouldn't call him.
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reader, Smellyellie  +, writes (15 June 2009):
 Yiu should phone him and see what is going on as this us the only way you are going to find out...
I wouldn't thought that he would find you easy as I have been in the same situation and then they have just turneed around and said that they couldn't see us being any more then just friends... Tight hey... Haha... Anyway I don't think that he was playing you but he is giving you mixed signals which isn't good if you feel insecure about what happened... Also if you feel insecure abvout the stuff you did with him then maybe you shouldn't of done it.. To put it bluntly.. :)
Phone him it won't hurt to find out why he's being a jerk!! Good luck x
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