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writes:I need it to placed it again, i am still confusedI am 22 year old, who had or have a relationship with a 42 year old man, and a 5 months baby boy. Since we started he has been lying and cheating on me, but i always forgive him, i feel that i can't take anymore, i am so depressed i feel i should get help, the worse think i have never cheated on him.....He cheated with his Ex Wife, He always talk with him Ex's, have embarrass me all the times, call me name and disrespect me with no reason, has prove to me the any girl the open the leg he will take it~ When i was pregnant he was never there for me, i spent my pregnancy in my mother house, plus i am still living with my mom. He comes once a week to have sex with me, with no responsibility, when i ask him question or explanation about his act, his answer is we don't have anything....For the past three months we did had any sex, because i am tire of been used, i love him and i want a future with him, but he don't seem to realized that. He confess to me by ,me pushing him so much to tell me the truth that he found a girl, in the Staten Island boat, who was very horny and invited him over her house, he went there had sex unprotected with her, after that he claimed had sex with her in two more occasion but protected, also admitted having sex with 2 other girl he met in the same location, but protected... I am really afraid don't know what to do, he don't seem to have control of himself, i love him, but what can i do, to help him be a better man, and realized that my son and i, we need him.Thank UShould i dated some other guy? or just wait?If he once come back, u think he deserve a change?How can i forgive him?Do u think, he had love me, all it was just sex?How can i make him to respect me?
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (24 May 2008):
 okay hun i see your situation and when your inlove were always blind to see what people are really doing and if we werent in love we would be like theirs no way in hell i would be treated like that, but you need to realise that unless he wants to change he wont you cant change a person no matter how hard you try, your much better than this you deserve better and so does your child..by the looks of it hes a cheater and is a player. and if he respected you he wouldnt cheat on you hun. he has to choose to be a better person all you can do is tell him. i would get yourself and your life back on track focus on you and your child before getting into any relationship. and as far as loving you i dont think he does or he would treat you better and not / if a girls legs open ill take it !! chin up hun you have a beautiful baby that needs your love and attention. give yourself some respect and walk away from this man. i know this is hard to hear but thats only my opinion on the matter and whatever you choose to do no one will judge you only be their for you x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): Just reading that I can't believe it. You should totally never see him again, would be hard but definately for the best, couple years at the most later and you'll be soo much better for it. It's hards to see it when you're in the relationship but looking from the outside, geez, you always deserve better than that, being by yourself is better than that!! Give yourself the opportunity for a better life. take care anyways[Moderator Message] We seem to have a lot of Unanswered Questions piling up at the moment. Any aunties want to respond to one or two and help clear up the backlog? Just click the 'Unanswered Questions' link above and strut your stuff. Thanks!
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