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writes:i've been a single for 4yrs..hate being a single for long time while my friends got themselves their mr.right.i've been to youth club a yr ago but none of guys doesn't seems attracted to me.i thought about dating site,my cousin warned about it cuz there're lots of guys with personality,appearance problems.i don't want to go for blind date either cuz it makes me look like loser,also a possibility of developing into relationship is less than 20%(that's what my friend said) do you think may be going to bar or pub would help me to find a guy???
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reader, pandabird  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 I have never met a lovely boy in a bar... I'm sure some of them were perfectly nice, interesting, caring individuals.. But they're not going to display that in a bar environment.
I don't want to generalise, but to be honest, most of them are looking for one night stands (in my experience anyway)
Fatherly Advice has it right, think about what sort of boy you want, and think about where he'd be.
Best of luck :)
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich +, writes (23 March 2010):
 Dont think too much, Let the right guy find you, you'll never know maybe he is just around you. Mr right can find anywhere. One time you find him in a shooping mall, church or maybe as like what you said bar. But for sure he will come to you very soon, for a while its ok to be single, enjoy the freedom, freedom to travel around. Its more fun to do what ever you do with freedom... I wish you goodluck.
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 The trouble with finding Mr. right is finding the one with the right first name. You don't want to get to know Mr. Always Right. Mr. Down Right Crazy is a bit of a turn off too.
To tell you the truth the bar scene is not a good place to look. If you are looking for a permanent relationship, You want Prince Faithful, not Prince charming. Look in places where you would find people who think more about others than themselves. Churches and service organizations. in other words you won't meet a bake at a night club. Think about the kind of guy you want to meet then think about where that kind of guy would be.
You have probably heard this advice often but, Justin Case, be sure that you present your self as the kind of girl that the kind of guy you are looking for would be interested in. If you want a family guy who is looking to settle down, Don't dress like a one night stand, and don't act like a teenager. Good luck finding Mr. Genuinely Right.
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