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Do you know if it is a problem?

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Question - (1 June 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Dear all, HI

I have a very serious problem which starts to worrying me.

I'm a 23 years old man. I'm a vrgin and recently when i want to have sex with my girlfriend and when we are kissing i have ejaculation in my underpants easily. My penis is very sensitive and with a slight touch it starts to cum.

Do you know if it is a problem?

Many Thanks.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008):

don't be nervous.just be confident.if possible, try tomasturbate before any close contact.this is temporary way to reduce anxiety .but as u become more mature( i mean older),and when ur sex life starts,these problems won't exist anymore.

note: one disadvantage about mastubating technique is that it may take away ur sex drive towards ur gf.so if u wanna try masturbating,then do it an hour earlier than foreplay.just give an excuse that u r going to toilet ;)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008):

Hi..even i am going through the same problem...

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A female reader, I'mheretohelpyou United States +, writes (2 June 2008):

I'mheretohelpyou agony auntWOW!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008):

yes this is a problem. but you are only a few years behind sex wise mabye 3 or 4 years; 16-20 y/o do this. if the problem persists: open one those emails about premature ejaculation...and order the pills.

you should deal with this right away.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008):

Being that you're a virgin, you may just be getting to excited to fast. Try taking a deep breath and just calming down. Relax yourself and maybe try not really focusing on what's going on sexually, but rather just how beautiful your girlfriend looks, or how much fun you had with her that day, or maybe even something not at all related to a female or sex. Just try to keep your mind somewhere else for a while.

If that doesn't work, maybe you could speak to your doctor about pre mature ejaculation. A lot of men have this problem and, although I'm not sure, I think it's something that can be helped. Good luck to you

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