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writes: My boyfriend and I are into each other and have been dating. I am 18 and he will soon turn 18. Both myself or my boyfriend has had sex. However, we both have said that we want to and want it to be special. We have talked about it and decided that it should be with someone special. We both consider the other special enough for it. We both think that we will do it. However, we know the legal age for sex is 18. So we are going to wait until then.For his 18th birthday I would like to give him the gift of sex. I think it will be a gift that I am likely to enjoy. What advice do you have about birthday sex? Is the bed the best location for first time birthday sex? How much time should we allow? Should we plan on from bedtime to morning? I want it to be a surprise for him. What advice do you have for making it a surprise? Would there be a way of letting him know about his gift without saying what I have planed for him? Do you have some advice for starting out? Do you have some advice for knowing when he is ready for intercourse? What position is the best for first time birthday sex? Could we use more than one? Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (24 August 2008):
 Hmmmm. Well I think you are especially prudent to wait until his legal age (wondering where this may be). It's certainly more concern for jurisdiction than most of us.
But anyway, you apparently said that both of you have had sex (or not?) In either case, why not just have a nice romantic dinner but not talk about it - then back at your place or his, have a drink or two (or whatever) and heat up on the couch. Let him take the lead from there. That is what us guys are supposed to do providing we have a willing and eager partner. And don't fret - he will be ready.
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