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writes:It's common knowledge that you dont call your ex endlessly if you're no longer interested in them, right?My boyfriend broke up with me a few months ago and has slowly been contacting me more and more often. Now, we talk a few times a week. I tolerate it to see if things develop. They can't develop right now bc he's temporarily been placed in an office overseas. He'll be back soon. (I know what you're thinking but he's neither bored nor lonely bc he has friends in that office.)but bottomline my question is this: no one with any sense of anything contacts their ex to this degree unless there is something there right? anyone with any sense knows that you just don't do that to your ex, right? you only call and keep contact immediately afterwards if you're interested... it's common sense, isn't it?? we broke up a couple months ago and have been in contact the whole time. now, more than ever.
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reader, MonicaC +, writes (26 June 2009):
 I don't know for sure what he is thinking or what his reasons are for calling you, but it's probably the fact that he misses you. I would also speculate that he still has feelings for you. Whether this means he wants to get back together with you upon his return or not, I can't say. Only he knows that. And, instead of reading too much into the phone calls, I would find a way of asking him. In my humble opinion, honest communication is the best way to get these questions answered instead of second-guessing.
It sounds like you two had a good thing together and maybe you could get it back, if that's what you want. I hope it works out the way you want it to, sweetie. xoxo
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