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female
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anonymous
writes:Are men scared off by women that ask them out for a date, or is it a turn on?
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reader, Wotan  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 I wouldn't say that it makes you come off as "easy" to ask a guy out. If anything, it shows that you are confident and assertive, two traits that usually aren't associated with being "easy" at all.I can't think of a single guy I know who would be intimidated by being asked out.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (7 March 2007):
 Men like it but be careful. Men also don't like women who come across as 'easy'. At least not as long term girlfriends. So by all means ask him out, but then once you know he is interested, make him work to win you. Show that you are keen but not too keen. Good luck.
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reader, kenny +, writes (7 March 2007):
 I would feel really flattered if a girl made the first move on me.
So the answer to you question is no i woulden't be scared off atal, i think more women should do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): The "He's Just Not Into You" guy thinks men don't like it when a woman calls or makes the first move, but what does he know he is just one "guy".
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reader, Somebody +, writes (7 March 2007):
It would be a turn on for me. Men are intimitated by women, period. I think it is wonderful for women to make the first move and be the aggressor sometimes. Men are expected to face rejection from a young age on, which prevents some of us from persuing a woman we may want. Not all of us are players, and this doesn't mean we lack confidence. Rejection just gets old very fast.
Don't wait for the man you want to come to you - go and get him because he may want you too, but after years of rejection, he just doesn't have the nerve to come up and begin a conversation. Go get your man ladies!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): I love it! A good dominate woman is hard and good to find!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): Some men like it when women make the first move and find it rather sexy rather than the other way round. Also by making the first move they can tell that you are shining with confidence.
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