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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:just started dating girl that I really like who is 32. She is a naturally a shy person. We talked in my car and I offered her some of my snacks. She took few and I told her to take more and not to be shy. She said she watches her weightI gave her my number and I told her to text anytime and not to be shy. She texted couple times then stopped. When I see her in person she was telling me about something and said she will text me, then i said " told you to feel free texting me she said I can text her too because she doesn't like being the only one reaching out. I said okay, and things progressed from there. We went out couple times and was open and talkative which surprised me considering she is a shy personShe gave me tight hugs and shows affectionate. Things turned for the worse when we were texting and she was slow to responding when we were discussing sex. So I told her not to be shy...She said, she was watching something and not to worry that I won't open up.. then she suddenly stopped responding until the next day and she apologized and she said she fell asleep. All was well until few days ago when we were chatting over text and she was telling me that sometimes some of the people she dated didn't meet her expectations . Then I told her that " you just have to be vocal about things, " don't be shy"The last straw was when we were smoking weed in my car. she is was taking pauses to smoke and I told her to smoke "and not to be shy"She then send me a long text telling me that she finds it very offensive that I repeatedly tell her " don't be shy" and that sometimes she wants to go at slower pace and don't feel like doing anything and I should stop labelling her as 5 year oldi just wanted her to be comfortable.. I didn't mean disrespect by it
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